I guess that I have been put on the shelf as a bachelor, not sure that it was really my idea. One day Anne Marie simply decided that it was going to happen and started to plan the wedding. She did not really act as though I had much of a choice to be clear. She did show me how things were going to look pretty much and let me in on the bottom line discussion. Her father was there, laughing his butt off as she went through the wedding websites detailing the costs of everything and telling us that he was going to pay for it. He could tell right away that I had not really agreed to it yet. She simply smiled and said “He shall be there” That was sort of annoying, because it was like she knew that she had me wrapped around her finger.